With or Without EU (You)

I have to say, I'm profoundly disappointed by the results of last night's referendum. Disappointed because of the economic risks, to my own employer (which supports most of the local economy) and to the country as a whole, but much more so because of the statement it sends about what we, the British (or rather the English and Welsh) think about our own place in the world, and about the world around us. 

Just over a year ago, a lot of people I knew were feeling something similar about the general election result. What I wrote then (http://jon-nonsenseland.blogspot.co.uk/2015/05/talking-about-end-of-world.html) is probably just as relevant today - and certainly, what was written then as an outsider, looking in at other's views, applies today, to me, for my own perspective. 

But there's more, because this was a close-run battle. Unlike a General Election, where things can change every five years, this is a once and for all decision, and yet it has been decided on such a slim majority. I have already read in several places the statement "We can't ignore 17.4 million voters", but that statement ignores the fact that 16.1 million voted to stay, and another 12.7m didn't turn out to vote. And many people have demonstrated very strong views - for some the inability to live with, others to live without EU membership. How can we move forward, together with a country so closely divided?

When Scotland voted to Remain in the UK, the close run nature of the vote (much less close than this) led to the UK government responding to the clearly expressed desire of some for independence offering significantly more freedoms... My hope and prayer is that, as the "leave" side take control they recognise that this was not an overwhelming victory, not (thankfully) a massive validation of their view, and that they seek to re-assure those of us who wanted to Remain that, even as they respect the view of the (slight) majority, they don't seek to sideline the rest of us. 

The Remain campaign may have lost the fight last night, which means Brexit is inevitable. But leaving the EU doesn't have to mean turning our backs on the principles that make the EU strong. Peaceful co-operation, inclusiveness, respect for diversity are values which we need to embrace - values which cross political divides, just as the Remain campaign crossed the political divides. Certainly, for me, these are values which come from my faith, from my own desire to be Christ-like in all I do, to reflect the inclusive, peaceful, respectful love I have experienced. 

Some much wiser men than me wrote this:-

"As citizens of the United Kingdom, whatever our views during the referendum campaign, we must now unite in a common task to build a generous and forward looking country, contributing to human flourishing around the world. We must remain hospitable and compassionate, builders of bridges and not barriers. Many of those living among us and alongside us as neighbours, friends and work colleagues come from overseas and some will feel a deep sense of insecurity. We must respond by offering reassurance, by cherishing our wonderfully diverse society, and by affirming the unique contribution of each and every one." (http://www.archbishopofcanterbury.org/articles.php/5743/eu-referendum-statement-by-archbishops-of-canterbury-and-york) 

My prayer is that, whoever takes over as leader after Cameron will listen to this, and listen to those who did not vote they way they did, as only through listening and working together can we unite this fractured and divided country. I hope that all those who supported the Remain campaign will join me in encouraging our new leaders to respect our deeply held beliefs, even as we come to turns with the new world they are leading us into.

At the Moment When the Miracle Occured

Christmas is here.... and whether its been the culmination of a long period of waiting and reflection, or a manic dash of shopping, cooking, cleaning and preparing, today is the day everything has been leading up to... the day of the birth of the Saviour - a day of celebration!

But what was the real miracle of Christmas? The choirs of angels? The new star? The visitation from the outcast, vagabond shepherds, or the (sometime later) visit of the wise men?

But for me these are peripheral - at most signs of the true miracle of Christmas, which is summed up in the name Emmanuel - God With Us. Because what Christmas actually represents is God, in all his divinity, all his majesty, all his power, chosing to put that aside and come to be with us, here in the messiness of our humanity, in the nitty-gritty down and dirty real world that we inhabit. God, the creator of the entire universe coming to live in his creation. 

Interestingly, there has been some recent debate about the traditional nativity story, and whether Jesus was actually born in a stable (a word not used anywhere in the New Testament accounts) - in fact the suggestion is that the birth would have taken place in the midst of Joseph's family in the family living space (a space which would have been shared with the animals, hence the presence of the manger). 

As I'm not a scholar of New Testament greek, or an expert on 1st Century Palestinian living I'm not going to debate the right or wrong of this "new" interpretation (see http://www.psephizo.com/biblical-studies/jesus-really-wasnt-born-in-a-stable/ if you want to find out more), but as I read this I was struck by the reality of "God With Us" that this presents - an ordinary birth, in an ordinary family home, but of an extraordinary child.

Because true miracle of Christmas Day was just the start, although for us this is often seen as the culmination. For in the birth God began the process of ending the separation between Himself and us. The process ends with a new heaven and a new earth, and goes via a wooden cross and an empty tomb, but its a journey that starts in a manger in Bethlehem, with Emmanuel. 

It was You on a wooden cross

When it seemed everything was lost

What they didn't know is death was beaten

It was You standing at the grave

Son of God, rising up again

For all the world to know that God is with us

Emmanuel by Martin Smith, (C) 2013

I Can't Wait Any Longer...

Those who know me well (or even a little) will probably know that patience isn't one of my strengths.... I'm not renowned for my ability to wait patiently for anything really - I'd much rather know what's going to happen, when and how, rather than have to wait to find out.

Take, as a trivial example, the new Star Wars film. I freely admit to being a bit of a Star Wars geek. OK, a lot of a Star Wars geek. So the release of a new Star Wars film was something of a highlight of the year for me. I was excited about it, and I really wanted to know what was going to happen. You don't know how much willpower it took for me to stay relatively spoiler free in the build up - particularly after a number of my friends saw the midnight opening showings, and I had to wait until the next evening... Yes, I was pleased to go into the film not knowing everything (I'd picked up some hints and worked some of the "twists" out based on the rumours, but that's very different to having the full plot spoiled!). 

So why does this matter? I was thinking earlier today about Christmas, and how this year in particular Christmas seems to have come upon us so quickly. The shops were full of Christmas stuff back in early October, Costa coffee started handing out Christmas cups around my birthday (the end of October), people started decorating their houses in November, and even (most) schools have broken up a week before the big day. What's going on? Perhaps I'm not the only one who can't wait anymore? 

So what are we missing out on? As we rush headlong towards Christmas, I can't help but feel we are forgetting the traditional time of advent. Advent today seems to have been relegated to lighting a few candles (if Health and Safety allows) and then pressing on towards Christmas, but in doing so, we miss out on the time of "expectant waiting" - our opportunity to share in the ancient longing for our Saviour - and in doing so, do we run the risk of forgetting the real meaning of Christmas - not just that Christmas is about the birth of a baby in a stable, but the Christmas is about the coming of the One who has and will change our lives. 

Waiting can sometimes be a good thing. It can be a chance to reflect and really understand what, or who, we are waiting for. And in waiting, we accept the truth that our wills, our desires are not always the most important things in the world. For the few days that remain of Advent, I will be waiting, waiting for the One who transforms all things. 

Talking about the end of the world....

Well, my Facebook feed is alive tonight, mainly with people unhappy and hurting over the election results. People concerned about the future of the country, about what it means for certain groups, people talking about this result as if it was the end of the world. And I'm sure, although they've been pretty quiet (at least on my feed) there are other people celebrating, thinking that the right result has happened, looking forward to the next five years and what I will mean for the country. 

There are few topics more likely to divide people than politics, and I have no intention of discussing the outcome, whether its good or bad, or what it may or may not mean either for me or for other people in the city. 

Of course, the other topic equally likely to divide is religion, but here I'm not going to be as cautious, because as I was reading the Bible earlier today, I was challenged by these verses:-

"I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people – for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Saviour" 

(1 Timothy 2:1-3, NIV)

I was challenged because I'm usually pretty cynical about all politicians, of all political flavours, quick to find fault in what they do, and slow to recognise that the job they are doing is actually one that I wouldn't want, however much the pay, publicity and expenses are. Do I make prayers, petitions and intercessions for them as I should? I know I don't give thanks for them anywhere near as often as I should, at least according to this.

And, in case anyone starts suggesting that this only applies to worthy authorities, it turns out that when Paul wrote this, the ultimate (in human terms) authority was Emperor Nero, known as an arch-persecutor of Christians and quite possibly responsible for the ultimate execution of both Paul and Peter - as well as being known for the murder of his mother, for crushing Boudicca and defeating and scattering the Jewish people after a revolt. But Paul still tells us to give thanks for all those in authority, as well as praying for them.

Of course, Christian individuals, and the church collectively, have a duty and responsibility to act wisely, to challenge the decisions of those in authority and to encourage them to act in a merciful, just and Godly manner - and I give thanks for the way the church has done that in the last five years, and pray we will continue to do so. 

But I also pray that Christians will continue to follow Paul's instructions, to give thanks and intercede for those who chose to take up positions of authority, and to trust the God will provide them with Wisdom in the decisions they take, and will do my best to do the same myself for the next five years.  

Where is the hope and Where is the faith

It was early on Saturday morning, and the world paused for breath. The sabbath, the day of rest, but how would they find rest this Sabbath day? 

Friday had been and gone. Friday with its tear and pain, with its hopelessness and despair, with its crushing of dreams and the final, brutal, ending of hope. Friday, when all they had longed and hoped for was ripped away from them, leaving them alone, and in the darkness.

And yet, buried within each of them, hidden deep in the hearts, so well hidden that they dare not even acknowledge its existence, a small kernel of faith remained. A kernel, small as a mustard seed, waiting, waiting, waiting for Sunday

Because however dark it seems, there is a light shining in that darkness, and the darkness cannot overcome it. A like those kernels of faith, the light also waits for Sunday...

And what a Sunday! Bursting forth, from the cross on the hill, and from the mouth of the empty tomb, the light erupts and overflows, pouring out into their lives, joining with those kernels of faith, and spreading, growing, flowing out, from heart to heart, a river of love and mercy and light and healing and Grace.

Friday, with its darkness and pain has been gone. But Sunday stands before us.

No-one to point the finger

OK, so I usually reference U2 in my blogs, and today's title is from a U2 song, so thats OK. But really today I need to reference Elton John, because actually the title I want to use is "Sorry seems to be the hardest word".

I mean, how often do we actually say "sorry" these days. In this culture where we look to everyone else to blame, where our individualism means we can justify and explain our own actions, we're so quick to look around and point the finger at someone else, that we can usually find a way out of saying sorry. And if we can't then how often do we follow it up with our explanation, our justification, our escape route. "I'm sorry but...." or "I'm sorry you feel like that, but what I actually meant was... " Have we, as a culture, as a people, lost the ability to take responsibility for ourselves, for our own actions, for our own part in the things that go wrong?

I've spent a lot of time thinking and praying about a number of issues this Lent - and one of the things that God has been saying to me is that I need to get better at taking responsibility, accepting my own culpability and saying sorry. Just apologising, without trying to justify, explain or evade my part.

There is of course a place for understanding, for discussion, for explanation of the why of things that have gone wrong - but tacked on to the end of an apology is not the place for it. That comes later, if it comes at all, as the different parties try to work through, together, in openness, whatever the issues are, to try and prevent a repeat. But saying sorry is, or should be, a time of complete vulnerability - otherwise its not really repentence at all.

So here I am making a public commitment that I will do whatever I can to stick to this. If anyone who has read this catches me in the future sticking a "but..." on the end of an apology, you have my permission to call me up on it - to challenge me and make me think. Maybe, with time, and practice, and God's help, saying sorry won't be the hardest word after all...

Sleep, Sleep Tonight

I didn't sleep very well last night. Sleep has never been one of my strong points (ask my parents!), unlike my wife, who managed to sleep through the great Dudley Earthquake of 2002, despite her being less than 2 miles from the epicentre - an earthquake which woke me in Coventry, and even disturbed her mother all the way down in London... Sarah, is definately good at sleeping, in a way that I'm just not.

Last night however was particularly bad when it comes to sleeping. It wasn't helped by the fact that I am currently suffering from a bout of RSI (apparently its Tennis Elbow, which is interesting since I haven't picked up a tennis racket in the last 15 years!) which means I have a dull aching pain in my right arm, a nice tingling numbness in my right hand little finger, and occasionally an almost burning sensation in my right wrist. Annoying and uncomfortable, but not usually enough to hold me back.

But last night, along with the pain, my mind was working at 200 miles an hour, jumping around between things, making me ask questions. For some reason, last night my mind decided it was going to stay awake for hour after hour, reviewing and revisiting the conversations I'd had, the emails and the blog entry that I'd written... reviewing and revisiting, lookng for things I'd said that were wrong, things I should have said that I didn't, things I said at the wrong time and in the wrong way...

I wasn't something I was doing deliberately, I assure you. It wasn't a conscious choice. But once I started down that route, nothing was going to stop it... not for a good 3 hours, until eventually I drifted into an uneasy sleep.

Now, if this sounds self-indulgent and whiny, I'm sorry. Its not intended that way, although maybe that is just an unintended consequence of too little sleep. But out of it all, after all the reflecting, revisiting, reviewing, I've been left with a thought, a half-forgetten memory that has surfaced as part of my thinking, a liturgical prayer from my Methodist past...


"Almighty God, our heavenly Father,
we have sinned against you and against our fellow men,
in thought and word and deed,
in the evil we have done
and in the good we have not done,
through ignorance, through weakness,
through our own deliberate fault.
We are truly sorry, and repent of all our sins.
For the sake of your Son Jesus Christ, who died for us,
forgive us all that is past;
and grant that we may serve you in newness of life
to the glory of your name. Amen."

Because it is right that I stop, look back, and review what I have done - it is right that I recognise that, on each and every day, I will have done something, probably many things which are wrong, which are hurtful, which leave others around me wounded and pained. Often, I won't even know I've done it. But through Jesus, the crucified, risen, and glorified Son of God I can be forgiven, and I don't need to wallow in my wretchedness - I can continue to live in that newness of life, serving him as best I can... and that's a thought that should energise and sustain me, even as I struggle from too little sleep!